2018年06月14日
But will you elegantly use English
Trick 1 - Little hint, not to hurt
If you are not sure whether the other party will remember the money owed or if you are willing to pay the money in time, you can find a suitable entry point and try it out for a minute, such as:
I was happy to lend you the money when you needed it. That's what friends do.
I am very happy to be able to provide you with loans when you need them. This is what a friend should do.
Strategic Analysis:
You're gently reminding your pal that you came through when he or she was in trouble. Putting it this way shows you sympathize with your friend. Chances are, the person feels bad about not paying you back. An understanding tone affecting your chances of a hostile response.
In this suggestive way, the friend can be very euphemistically reminded that he has given a helping hand when he or she needs help and that she knows how to think for her friend. This means that the expression of understanding often allows the other party to feel embarrassed about not paying back the money and avoid some of the answers to their own disadvantages.
Elegant index five stars
Trick 2 - Efficient and straightforward
Being able to euphemistically and puncturing the money is natural, but for some friends, they really hear the word “repay the money” before they realize the anxieties in your heart. For example, say this:
When do you think you will be able to pay back the $500 I lent you?
Can you return me with your 500 knives?
Strategic Analysis:
Hinting will get you nowhere, because the person may misunderstand (perhaps willfully) what you're asking.
Like ripping off a Band-Aid, the process will be less painful if you do it quickly and directly.
Start off nicely; getting angry is more likely to result in the borrower pushing back than if you stay calm.
The hint may not be used at all, because the other party may misunderstand your intentions (even stupid).
Just as tearing off a band-aid, you can start with a fast-acting paraplegic to minimize pain.
Remember that you must be friendly in the beginning. The more you are excited, the easier it will be to scare the other person and the easier it will be to panic.
The more you have to do it directly, the more you need to do it, and the smoother it is, the more elegant it is.
Trick 3 - Appropriately cry poor, increasing urgency
"Hands tight" is a very good reason to collect debts, because the other party has experienced the same distress when borrowing money, and it can also stimulate empathy. For example:
We're going to get hit with some really big tuition bills soon and could really use that money.
We have to pay a very large amount of tuition right away. It is really necessary to use the money that was lent to you.
Strategic Analysis:
Of course, you don't need to justify asking for your money back, but it can be helpful to cite a pressing reason -- as long as it's true.
Evoking a specific thing makes repayment seem more like a necessity than simply an option.
Repaying debts is a matter of course. Although the reasoning is such, it is reasonable to provide a reason for debt collection, which can help you to collect debts smoothly (provided that this is true).
Use an exact event to remind friends that you need the money, and that the other person feels that it is no longer his choice to pay back the money.
The elegance index is slightly embarrassing, but it is still very practical
If you are not sure whether the other party will remember the money owed or if you are willing to pay the money in time, you can find a suitable entry point and try it out for a minute, such as:
I was happy to lend you the money when you needed it. That's what friends do.
I am very happy to be able to provide you with loans when you need them. This is what a friend should do.
Strategic Analysis:
You're gently reminding your pal that you came through when he or she was in trouble. Putting it this way shows you sympathize with your friend. Chances are, the person feels bad about not paying you back. An understanding tone affecting your chances of a hostile response.
In this suggestive way, the friend can be very euphemistically reminded that he has given a helping hand when he or she needs help and that she knows how to think for her friend. This means that the expression of understanding often allows the other party to feel embarrassed about not paying back the money and avoid some of the answers to their own disadvantages.
Elegant index five stars
Trick 2 - Efficient and straightforward
Being able to euphemistically and puncturing the money is natural, but for some friends, they really hear the word “repay the money” before they realize the anxieties in your heart. For example, say this:
When do you think you will be able to pay back the $500 I lent you?
Can you return me with your 500 knives?
Strategic Analysis:
Hinting will get you nowhere, because the person may misunderstand (perhaps willfully) what you're asking.
Like ripping off a Band-Aid, the process will be less painful if you do it quickly and directly.
Start off nicely; getting angry is more likely to result in the borrower pushing back than if you stay calm.
The hint may not be used at all, because the other party may misunderstand your intentions (even stupid).
Just as tearing off a band-aid, you can start with a fast-acting paraplegic to minimize pain.
Remember that you must be friendly in the beginning. The more you are excited, the easier it will be to scare the other person and the easier it will be to panic.
The more you have to do it directly, the more you need to do it, and the smoother it is, the more elegant it is.
Trick 3 - Appropriately cry poor, increasing urgency
"Hands tight" is a very good reason to collect debts, because the other party has experienced the same distress when borrowing money, and it can also stimulate empathy. For example:
We're going to get hit with some really big tuition bills soon and could really use that money.
We have to pay a very large amount of tuition right away. It is really necessary to use the money that was lent to you.
Strategic Analysis:
Of course, you don't need to justify asking for your money back, but it can be helpful to cite a pressing reason -- as long as it's true.
Evoking a specific thing makes repayment seem more like a necessity than simply an option.
Repaying debts is a matter of course. Although the reasoning is such, it is reasonable to provide a reason for debt collection, which can help you to collect debts smoothly (provided that this is true).
Use an exact event to remind friends that you need the money, and that the other person feels that it is no longer his choice to pay back the money.
The elegance index is slightly embarrassing, but it is still very practical
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